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But officials acknowledged Thursday that it is often difficult to tell how much of the increase in numbers stems from more crime or more reporting. An anonymous survey of military academy students during the school year showed that fewer students said they had experienced unwanted sexual contact than in previous years. Unwanted contact ranges from inappropriate touching to rape. The surveys are done every other year, so there wasn't one accompanying this latest report.
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